Carry
Me Back
- August 15, 2003
Up
Close and Personal:
In Memory of Helen Gill (1904-2003)
By
Tom Bennett. Edited by George
Edmonston Jr.
Editors
note: Affectionately referred to by everyone
who knew her as OSUs First Lady of Basketball,
Helen Boyer Gill passed away in her flower garden
at her Corvallis home on the morning of July 22,
2003. The following story first appeared in the
September 1996 issue of The Oregon Stater and
remains one of the best features ever to appear
in our alumni publication profiling the life and
contributions of this amazing and historic woman.
Helen was 98 at the time of death.
Helen
Gill wears her 91 years lightly, with a winning
smile and a vital interest in whats going
on today. She looks back fondly on a life that was
interwoven with Oregon State basketball for 35 yearsthe
time during which her husband, the legendary Amory
T. Slats Gill guided the fortunes of
OSU basketball and served as athletic director.
I
went to every game, she said proudly. At
least all the home games. She didnt
travel with Slats until their children were grown
but kept up with game reports and the performance
of players. And, of course, those were the years
of glory for Oregon State basketball. Five of Slats
teams won Pacific Coast championships, and only
nine teams in 36 years had losing records. His statistics
are basketball historyhis 599 career victories
still make him OSUs all-time winningest basketball
coach. When he died in 1966, the Coliseum was officially
named Gill Coliseum.
Helen
still lives in the same house she and Slats moved
into soon after they were married in 1932. Its
a bungalow-type that could be on the Historic Register,
she said. Two of her deep interests are antiques
and the preservation of older houses.
But
Helen doesnt live in the past. She treasures
tending her garden and enjoys playing bridge with
a circle of friends she has known for years. She
has been a member of the Corvallis Country Club
since Slats presented her with a membership and
a set of golf clubs as a wedding gift. She admits,
however, that she has never taken to golf. I
never had time to learn, she said.
When
she turned 90, she took a trip to Santa Fe to
avoid people making a fuss over it (her birthday).
But friends wouldnt be denied and all the
basketball wives Helen had known in the past got
together for a celebration. She loved it.
Helen
and Slats met on a blind date arranged by one of
her Gamma Phi Beta sorority sisters. He had graduated
three years earlier and was returning to Oregon
State as freshman basketball coach, after coaching
two years in Oakland, Calif., at the YMCA and at
Oakland High School. He had been an outstanding
player in his senior year on the 1924 Beaver squad
and was an All-American selection.
Helen
had come to Oregon State in 1925 to get a degree
in home economics after two years at St. Marys
Junior College in downtown Portland. Her mother,
widowed when Helen was in high school, had brought
her family of four from Tampico, Ill., to be near
a sister.
Tampico
is where Ronald Reagan comes from, she shared
with a twinkle in her eye. He used to come
to my childhood parties. She doesnt
remember many details about him and remembered him
to be a bit younger, of course. But
it is a fact they were children together in that
prairie farm community in the early part of the
century.
In
1927, the year she met Slats, she was a sophisticated
college co-ed in her senior year. The blind date,
unlike the stereotypical disaster many have experienced,
turned out to be a happy success. The two liked
each other at once and soon became a familiar couple
on campusthe tall, lanky basketball player
towering over the vivacious brunette with the stylish
20s bob.
From
then on she could be seen cheering in the front
row at every game. Even though she wasnt especially
athletic, she always enjoyed watching sports. And
since Slats teams won more often than not,
she found watching could be a lot of fun.
After
they were married in 1932 and Slats career
was in full gear, Helen happily assumed the role
of homemaker for which her home economics training
so well prepared her. Daughter Jane Gill Stephenson,
56, recalls that she was also a devoted wife.
She was a wonderful helpmate to my father,
she said, always friendly and outgoing, and
above all, very supportive of his goals. They were
a team, and she added a great deal to the success
and tradition of Oregon State basketball.
She
was careful, however, not to get too close to the
players as a kind of housemother figure. Slats
was very strict with his players and felt you shouldnt
hobnob with them, Helen said. Of course,
at the end of the season they were always invited
to our home for a celebration.
Once
the childrenJane and Johncame along,
Helen became a strong nurturing mother as well as
a coachs wife. Now the whole family attended
home games and became sports fans. As a boy, John
remembers being proud of Slats ability to
attract good players to OSU. It was an interesting
time for me to follow my fathers career,
he said. I saw a lot of great players and
teams. They liked to win and were good competitors.
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Helen
and John Gill, photo from Sept. '96 Oregon
Stater.
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He
also remembers his mothers strength and support
during a difficult childhood after he was born deaf.
She was determined to help him live a productive
and fulfilled life, enrolling him early in a school
in which he learned to read and communicate. After
graduating from Corvallis High, where he played
basketball and other sports, he attended OSU as
a Phi Delt (like his father) and graduated with
a business degree in 1960.
Jane
followed her mother in home economics and married
the catcher on the Beaver baseball team, Jack Stephenson,
56. One of their four children is an OSU alumnus,
Mark Stephenson, 85.
Besides
her devotion to family and church, Helen Gill always
had been active in community affairson the
Red Cross Board for many years and a charter member
of the Assistance League for needy children. Over
the years, she has also been a valued member of
her sorority and enjoys the opportunity to keep
in touch with the interests and concerns of younger
women.
Now
the great-grandmother of eight, Helen continues
to impress others with her zest for life and to
teach by example one of her maxims
You
have to have many experiences to live a full life.
Tom
Bennett, who for many years was a Corvallis free-lance
writer, is now retired and living in St. Louis.
GeorgeP.
Edmonston Jr. is editor of the Oregon
Stater and E-Clips.
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